Aug 11—Ryan and I attended the Marriage Counseling and Family Planning seminars at Cainta Municipal Hall. It was a good three hours. Both Ryan and I were sleepy while sitting in the room and listening to the speaker. Though I must give credit to the speaker since he did try his best to make the seminar lively and fun. He cracked jokes every now and then and other participants were actually enjoying his talk. I guess were just really sleepy at that time. Ryan just knocked off from work and I slept late the night before. We got our certificate of attendance for both seminars after we had our lunch.
I met up with my mom after the seminar as Ryan went home to sleep. We went to SM Megamall and got the CErtificate of NO MARriage (CENOMAR) we requested a couple of weeks ago, window-shopped, had a check up with an opthalmologist and bought a rice cooker. I was really tired when we reached home.
Aug 13—Ryan and I returned to Cainta Municipal Hall and went straight to Local Civil Registrar office. We filed our application for a marriage license
(Shuck! marriage license??totoo na talaga to...ikakasal na ako!). The administrator was actually a bit hesistant since the date for our wedding and the expiration date of our license are too close. Our wedding date is on Dec 22 and our marriage license will expire on Dec 24 but we said it is okay so long as our license is valid on the day of our wedding. We had to this since I will be moving on to my new work by Monday and I will not have any leaves by then. So, I have to fix everything that I could while I am still on terminal leave. They eventually did allow us to file our application after a few explanation and a few white lies…ehehehe… =)
For those who would like to know the process and requirements in applying for a marriage license, please check the steps below:
1. Secure a copy of the following documents:
a. NSO copy of both yours and your fiance’s Birth Certificate and CENOMAR. To be safe get two copies of each. I have to request for another CENOMAR for the two of us since the registrar in Cainta took the original copies.
TIP: You may also secure a copy from SM business centers in SM malls. It costs only 20 pesos more if you get it directly from NSO office. A copy of a Cenomar costs P215 and a birth certificate costs P160 (NSO Rates are P195 and P140 respectively). This will save you the hassles in going to NSO and the long lines.
b. Certificate of Residence (CEDULA)
c. Certificate of Attendance for Marriage Counselling Seminar
d. Certificate of Attendance for Family Planning Seminar
NOTE: You can only get the certificate of attendance for the seminars once you have completed them.
2. Check the schedule and attend the Marriage Counselling and Family Planning at your Municipall Hall or City Hall.
(For Cainta, its scheduled every Wednesday at 9 AM-12 NN )
TIP: It would be best to inquire with your civil registrar office if this is still a requirement with them. Some municipalities or city halls does not require couples to attend this anymore. Or ask them if they will honor your certificate of attendance in a Pre-Cana or Discovery Weekend seminar as a replacement for the Marriage Counseling seminar. In this way you’ll only need to attend the Family Planning and will save you time.
3. Fill up an application form from your Civil Registrar office and submit it together with your other documents and pay the marriage license application fee
(For Cainta its P350). Ensure to keep the claim stub that will be given after your application has been filed.
4. Claim your marriage license after
ten calendar days.
Hope this information helps!
Another must-do off our list! Yey!